A gentle yet powerful journey back home to your body, your pleasure, and your power — on your own terms with Dr. Kimberly Rose Pendleton

When you’ve been through trauma, sexuality doesn’t always feel like a place of freedom.

It can feel distant, confusing, even painful.

You want to feel connected — but instead you find yourself going numb, checking out, or performing just to get through it.

Maybe you avoid intimacy altogether.
Maybe you carry guilt or shame you can’t quite name.
Maybe you’re wondering if you’ll ever feel safe in your own skin again.

If that’s where you are — I want you to know: I’ve been there too.
And there is a way forward.

I want you to know that no matter where you are right now in relationship to your body and your sexuality after trauma: there is nothing wrong with you.

The fear, the numbness, the disconnection, the performing… it doesn’t mean that you’re broken, ruined, or bad in any way,

It means your body and soul have been protecting you.
It means you’ve been doing exactly what you need to do to survive, and thank God!

But now, you’re here — because something inside you is whispering that it’s time.

Time to feel safe.
Time to feel at home in your skin.
Time to let pleasure back in.

Not as something frivolous, but as something you deserve.

there is nothing wrong with you

The fear, the numbness, the disconnection, the performing… it doesn’t mean that you’re broken, ruined, or bad in any way,

It means your body and soul have been protecting you.
It means you’ve been doing exactly what you need to do to survive, and thank God!

But now, you’re here — because something inside you is whispering that it’s time.

Time to feel safe.
Time to feel at home in your skin.
Time to let pleasure back in.

Not as something frivolous, but as something you deserve.

Trauma takes so much from us. 

Even years later, its impact can ripple through our relationships, our confidence, our sense of safety, and our ability to enjoy desire, intimacy, and pleasure.

Maybe you’ve found yourself:

• Going numb or dissociating during sex.
  
• Feeling guilty or ashamed for wanting more.
  
• Avoiding intimacy all together.
  
• Struggling with confusion about what’s “okay” to want or knowing what you want at all.
  
• Believing you’re broken or it's just too late to heal.
  
• Longing to feel alive again — but not really knowing where to start.
  
  

You don’t have to live that way.

Reclaiming your sexuality after trauma is not about “fixing” you. It’s about freedom.

Freedom to trust your yes.
Freedom to honor your no.
Freedom to feel turned on by life again.

And that healing ripples outward.

Because when one woman reclaims her body and her pleasure, she reclaims her power — and the whole world shifts.

Introducing…

Reclaiming Your Sexuality After Trauma

A gentle, trauma-informed mini course designed to help you:

Come home to your body, your desire, and your pleasure — on your own terms

Understand trauma’s impact on sexuality and how to gently reconnect

Build safety and trust with yourself so intimacy feels possible again

Learn to carry pleasure not as a danger, but as a flame of remembrance and power

This is not another prescriptive, shame-filled conversation about sex.

It’s a safe, heart-centered space for you to re-learn intimacy in a way that feels nourishing and sovereign.

 
It’s not about rehashing your past.

It’s about unlocking your future.

You deserve to want.
To touch and be touched.
To eat and savor.
To create and rest. To not feel guilty for making money, having fun or feeling beautiful.

To live like your life belongs to you - because it does.

Let me show you how.

Hi, I’m Dr. Kimberly Rose Pendleton

I’m a scholar of intimacy and trauma healing, with a PhD in Feminist Studies and an MA in Religion from Yale. Through my business, UNCOVER, I’ve guided thousands of women through sacred reclamation journeys to heal, reconnect, and rise.

But more than that, I’ve lived this.

I know what it feels like to be cut off from your own body.
To feel like desire is dangerous.
To carry shame that was never yours to begin with.

And I also know the freedom that comes when you gently, steadily reclaim yourself.

This course brings together years of research, teaching, and personal practice — to offer you a path that’s both deeply informed and deeply embodied.

Because the world doesn’t need more women who are “fixed.”

The world needs more women who are free.

The Curriculum

When you join Reclaiming Your Sexuality After Trauma, you’ll receive:
instant access to the training.

🌹 A trauma-informed, heart-centered framework for understanding how trauma impacts sex, intimacy, and pleasure — and how to heal.

🌹 Gentle practices and guidance to help you reconnect with your body, build trust, and explore desire safely.

🌹 A safe, shame-free approach to sexuality that affirms your autonomy, your boundaries, and your timing.

🌹 Lifetime access, so you can return to the teachings whenever you need.

This course is designed to support you whether you’re just beginning your healing journey or years into it.

This course is for anyone whose relationship to sexuality has been impacted by trauma — whether that’s childhood trauma, sexual assault, emotional abuse, or religious systems like purity culture.

It’s for you if you’ve ever felt:

• Afraid of your own desire.
  
  

• Ashamed of your sexuality.
  
  

• Disconnected from your body.
  
  

• Like you’re “too late” to heal.
  
  

And it’s for you if you’re ready — not to rush into anything, but to begin again with tenderness, curiosity, and compassion.