Healing: Trauma, Pleasure, and Reclaiming Your Body

♥ Do you know that past trauma has impacted your ability to open up and connect in the present?

♥ Do you feel flooded or triggered when people mention assault, almost at the mercy of your own memory?

♥ Do you wish that you could open up more with your current partner, but your past experiences are making it feel nearly impossible?

I understand, and you’re totally not alone.

Trauma is a silencer, whether that is religious trauma that made you feel unworthy, sexual trauma that made you feel unsafe, or other traumas that simply left you feeling not at home in your own body.

♥ Hi. I’m Dr. Kimberly Rose Pendleton.

Not that long ago I was still deep in the grip of the lies that my trauma told me.

That I wasn’t safe to be seen, that I wasn’t ever going to be able to have a great love or a relaxed and easy sex life, that it wasn’t safe to flirt or be sexy.

I had religious trauma that made me question my desires and sexual trauma that made me feel like my body was not my own.

I know far too many of you can relate.

I then realized that I just could not continue to live like this. I wanted an epic love story.

I wanted to feel at home in my body. I wanted to HEAL.

I took myself through a four step process of healing that has quite honestly changed my life.

Now, it is my joy and honor to help others heal as well.

Many practitioners and coaches will try to tell you that healing must be a long and expensive process, but in my experience, it is actually the simplest of tools, applied over and over again, that do the most transformational work. 

♥ What Qualifies Me to Teach This ♥

My training:

I am uniquely positioned to offer insight into this topic in a nuanced, in-depth, soft and compelling way.

While there are many trauma teachers (and I so thankful for that) there are none who have my exact background in studying religion, gender and sexuality, global trauma, and women’s empowerment.

My combination of doctoral studies (My Women’s Studies PhD) and graduate work on religion and gender (My Masters degree from Yale) and my coaching and trauma training, in addition to my now years of experience holding women in healing retreats and courses, all give me an important perspective from which I teach and coach.

I’ve led hundreds of women through this work and their results have been that they feel more like themselves, they can let their armor down, they can open up, soften and let love truly in.

It is undeniable. And it is life changing. 

♥ Testimonials ♥

♥ The Healing Process ♥

Pre-Work: As soon as you sign up, you get access to my signature course, The 5 Intimacy Wounds, the foundation of my intimacy work

The 5 Intimacy Wounds that I work with (and the lies that they tell us) are:
> Abandonment: They’re going to leave.
> Excess: I’m too much.
> Unworthiness: I’m not enough.
> Separation: I’m better off alone.
> Visibility/Vulnerability: It’s not safe to be seen.

In this three part series, you’ll learn not only what they are and how they take root in us, but how we can soften and heal them. 

Then, your Healing Course modules will open up.

Modules:

Module 1: The Energetic Imprint of Healing

Module 2: Pleasure as a Trauma Healing Tool

Module 3: Trauma Responses and Our Nervous System

Module 4: How We Alchemize our Triggers

Your course also includes a journal that can be printed out or used digitally, quotes to save to your phone, and homework/notes to study.

♥ Bonuses:

As a bonus for this course, you will also receive lifetime access to the masterclass:
“Reclaiming Your Body After Sexual Trauma”

These modules collectively will change your life and offer you a blueprint to healing that you can use again and again.

♥ How it works ♥

You will get immediate access to the course and retain access for life, including all future modules, coursework and updates. You will get a unique username and log in to access the course portal in our private members’ site. Each module can be watched in the course portal app, for ease, or on YouTube, and on both subtitles can be added as well as the speed can be changed.

Frequently Asked Questions 

A final note from Kim as you consider joining us:

𝐏𝐥𝐞𝐚𝐬𝐮𝐫𝐞 𝐝𝐢𝐬𝐫𝐮𝐩𝐭𝐬 𝐭𝐡𝐞 𝐥𝐢𝐞 𝐭𝐡𝐚𝐭 𝐭𝐫𝐚𝐮𝐦𝐚 𝐭𝐞𝐥𝐥𝐬 𝐮𝐬, 𝐰𝐡𝐢𝐜𝐡 𝐢𝐬 𝐭𝐡𝐚𝐭 𝐨𝐮𝐫 𝐟𝐞𝐞𝐥𝐢𝐧𝐠 𝐠𝐨𝐨𝐝 & 𝐬𝐚𝐟𝐞 𝐝𝐨𝐞𝐬𝐧’𝐭 𝐦𝐚𝐭𝐭𝐞𝐫.

This is the core of my work on healing, and the cornerstone of UNCOVER.

Many people will make healing sound impossible, or endlessly expensive and taxing, but what I’ve found is that it’s the simplest tools, returned to over and over, that pave a pathway for lasting change.

Think, shoulders relaxed, jaw softened, heart opened.

Think, able to be present and feel loved.

Think, whole body pleasure, instead of fear.

You are worthy of this.

If you know you need this, but cost is prohibitive, please reach out to ask about scholarship options. And, if you are able to pay full price please know you are making it possible for others to receive this important work.

I love you. Let’s heal together.